Gay men

Gay men may carry a unique mix of pride and pressure, shame and resilience, desire and defensiveness. Whether you're thriving, struggling, or both, our work can create a space to sort through internalized homophobia, trauma, sex-negativity, body image, relationship dynamics, and the stories about success or masculinity you might’ve picked up but no longer believe.

I work with men navigating sex and dating (on and off the apps), long-term relationships and non-monogamy, aging in a youth-obsessed culture, substance use, HIV/STI status and stigma, burnout, isolation, and discovering what’s next. We can talk about the ways gay men have found connection, creativity, and community, as well as the grief and exhaustion that can come with feeling like you’re not enough.